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5 Things I wish DIDN’T put on my Baby Registry

March 23, 2020 by firstcomesfamily Leave a Comment

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The first thing you want to do after you find out you’re pregnant is shop. You create a baby registry on every site you know of: Target, Walmart, Babylist, and of course Amazon. They usually give a list of recommended items to register for, but do you really need them?! To be honest, there are a few things that I wish I didn’t register for just because people recommended it. I’m going to share the 5 items that I wish I didn’t put on my registry below!

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Milestone Blanket

I registered for this gorgeous custom milestone blanket after seeing photos all over Instagram. After time went on, I actually ended up using this felt letter board that I used for my weekly pregnancy photos. It is also super trendy and instagrammable.

Credit: Binxy Baby

Binxy Baby Shopping Cart Hammock

These looked like such a fun concept for grocery carts since car seats these days don’t go in child seat in carts anymore (they used to in 90s). I used this thing like once and it was SO much work to set up, take her out of the car, put her in, etc. I did end up keeping it because I do think it’ll be beneficial for when we have another baby.

Credit: Copper Pearl

Car Seat Cover

Another trendy item that I added from influence from Instagram. The downfall is that we live in Florida and it gets to almost 100 degrees here in the summer! It is even warmer when these covers are used on car seats. I can see how this is helpful for nursing moms and perhaps strolling around grocery stores or cool weather.

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Credit: Target

Boppy Pillow

Some people swear by these!! I however did not. It was way more uncomfortable using this. I ended up doing football hold for breastfeeding most times. We did use this as she was starting to sit up and would set it on the bed to hang out.

Credit: Amazon

Power Nail File

I saw a mom using this on her little baby and it looked so easy! It was so nerve wracking at the thought of cutting my baby’s nails. This is honestly was way scary to use on her!! I ended up using the NailFrida and swear by it.

Now some of these items may be super helpful to you but I just didn’t see the need for them! I think when adding these, it was more of a want than a need. What items do you wish you didn’t put on your registry? Share with me below!

XOXO,

Shie

Filed Under: Gift Guides, Pregnancy, Uncategorized Tagged With: baby registry

5 things I wish I had put on my Baby Registry

January 21, 2020 by firstcomesfamily Leave a Comment

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Now that my little one is actually here, there are so many things I wish I had put on my baby registry. Creating my baby registry was overwhelming beyond belief. For every product you “should” have, there is at least 10 different versions and it’s so difficult to pick one. Even though I research everything over the top, I still managed to miss such important items on my registry. We ended up gathering everything listed below as time had gone on and I’m here so that doesn’t happen to you!

Ergobaby Omni 360 Carrier

This carrier is SO comfy and so versatile. It can go into four different positions which is awesome because my little one loves facing forward to see what’s going on. The shaping is breathable and comfortable for those warm days. Also, the Omni 360 can be used for 0 to 48 months! I use this pretty much any time that I have to get anything done and my little one is in one of those clingy moods. Hubby has even worn it a few times with no complaints!

Bumbo Seat

At the 3-5 month stage where they’re not quite sitting but also want to see whats going on… the Bumbo Seat is a savior! We actually tested this at a friends house then went and bought one that night. It is so nice to be able to set it on the floor when I’m getting ready or on the kitchen island when prepping dinner. It also has the food tray which is nice when feeding first foods or giving toys to play with.

Inflatable Baby Tub

We had the Angelcare baby bath support for our baby initially but she grew out of it around 4 months when all she wanted to do was try to sit up. This pool is great because it blows up and has a little piece that helps them sit up. It is the perfect size so you don’t waste a whole bath of water! You can also travel easily with it! We have taken it on 5 trips so far (helps avoid those hotel tub germs).

Sun Shade Clings for the Car

Personally, I wasn’t a fan of the traditional sunshade that go on the car windows. I came across these shades that cling to the window, over 4,000 5-star reviews sold me. They block out SO much sun while being rather transparent and so easy to remove. you can fold them up and throw them in a bag for traveling. Also, such a great deal!

Medicines

I dreaded the day our baby girl would get sick for the first timed of course it happened while traveling. If I could go back, I would’ve purchased all medicines ahead of time so we didn’t have to worry about running out to get it all. My favorites are Zarbee’s Naturals Baby Immune Support, Zarbee’s Naturals Baby Cough Syrup, Zarbee’s Naturals Baby Soothing Chest Rub, Infants’ Tylenol, Infants’ Motrin, Boogie Wipes, Little Remedies Saline Spray and Drops. Not super fun to put on the registry but SO necessary!

Knowing what I know now, I would’ve created my registry so differently! I also will give other mamas-to-be way different gifts than before. Especially with my 5 items above, they are so useful yet forgotten by new mamas! Just trying to save another exhausted new parent from having to send their husband to target for special saline drip on a Tuesday night!

Filed Under: Newborn Life, Pregnancy, Uncategorized Tagged With: baby registry

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Today, I lost my patience. More times than I’d l Today, I lost my patience. More times than I’d like.

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When the house is a mess, but watching them play with their toys amazes you.

When they wake you up at the crack of dawn and give you that big “HI” when you walk in their bedroom. Melts your heart.

Going places isn’t as intimidating because they find it so exciting to be somewhere new.

When you feel like they’re watching too much screen time but when they dance to Mickey Mouse Clubhouse song, it’s just TOO CUTE.

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We ate in a haunted wine cellar 😱 And it was S We ate in a haunted wine cellar 😱

And it was SO romantic! ❤️We went to Savannah, GA in the beginning of the year and it was the best trip I have been on. Not only was it our first kid-free vacation but he city was SO cool and everything is historic. My favorite place was @theoldepinkhouse which was built in 1771 and is said to be haunted with ghosts that helped secure the independence of the 13 colonies from England. 

Our favorite dishes: Sautéed Shrimp & Scallops in a Parmesan cream sauce. I literally am drooling thinking about it 😋

Grilled Pork Tenderloin with bourbon molasses and the most amazing collard greens 🥬 

Have you been to Savannah, GA? What was your favorite restaurant there? 

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10 facts about me ✨ There are lots of new faces 10 facts about me ✨

There are lots of new faces here and I figured I’d take a chance to introduce myself! (I also took this cute selfie the other day and wanna post it bc i NEVER post selfie’s these days😆) My name is Shieann (Shy-Ann) and I’m the mama behind First Comes Family where I share real mom life, raising a toddler, messy house, hacks, recipes, and my favorite things 👋🏻

1. My hobby is baking! When I’m bored, I wanna bake 🍪 I make the best chocolate chip cookies (or so my husband says😋)
2. I moved to Florida when I was 19 and never had visited the city prior! 7 years later and I’m still here 🌴
3. I met my husband on @bumble and we got married 13 months after meeting 💍
4. I’m a die hard @theoffice fan. Bears, beets, battlestar galactica 🐻
5. I’ve competed in 2 NPC Bikini competitions 💪🏻👙
6. I had a self confidence and body awareness blog prior to this called Cake by the Ocean! If you scroll back, you’ll see some pics 😆
7.  My dream job has actually been a blogger and I’ve been able to put more effort into it since becoming a stay at home mom!
8. I worked in car sales for 5 years 🚘
9. My drink of choice is @coppolawine Cabernet Sauvignon 🍷
10. I’m literally so afraid of reptiles! Literally worst fear is a snake crawling in my bed 🐍

✨Tell me if you relate to any these! Or better yet, tell me one thing about you!

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Headed into another holiday weekend at @playground Headed into another holiday weekend at @playgroundsoftampa like...

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This isn’t sponsored but I truly love how sweet it is to see my girl bringing her “Mr.Unicorn” everywhere we go💜

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Did you send Christmas cards? 💌 I’ve sent my Did you send Christmas cards? 💌

I’ve sent my own Christmas cards out for 7 years now and haven’t missed one year. There’s something about sending a card to spread cheer through the old snail mail. I mean who doesn’t love getting mail that’s NOT a bill these days?! 😂 This year this Christmas card was designed by me, photo taken with my tripod, and printed by a small shop. Extra special for a year to remember 😅

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Merry Christmas Eve Eve! 🎅🏼Our Christmas jam Merry Christmas Eve Eve! 🎅🏼Our Christmas jammies are picked and ready to go! Who else LOVES Christmas jammies as much as i do?! 

🎄How many pairs of Christmas jammies do your littles have?! Vivian has 8🙈

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1. Embrace the C H A O S- Let’s be real, you probably won’t get a photo with everyone looking and your kitchen will be a disaster from attempting to bake cookies with them but take a second and breathe in the chaos, it won’t be like this for long.

2. Less is more- Don’t feel pressure to have 73829 gifts under the tree or to do nonstop Christmas activities. If you just want to watch The Grinch in PJs then do that! They will love it either way.❤️

3. New Traditions are Okay- 2020 has been far from traditional and Christmas won’t be an exception. It’s okay that you won’t get to go to moms, grandmas and uncles house this Christmas. Enjoy s l o w i n g down and staying home 🏠

👇🏻What are you doing to enjoy Christmas more this year? 

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Last night, we had a snowball fight at @floridaaqu Last night, we had a snowball fight at @floridaaquarium ...

for their Snow Days: A Safe Way to Play! ❄️The Snowball Toss is set up on the Rooftop Terrace to help defend marine life by tossing snowballs at the Sea Monster Trash Villains! 

Next up, Build Your Own Snow Creation where you got your very own bucket of snow and made your own snowman or creature! ⛄️

✨Snow Days at @floridaaquarium runs Dec. 26- 31, 9am-9:30 pm each day! You also get access to the aquarium exhibits after activities! Don’t forget to make a reservation on the aquarium’s site! 

TIP: Don’t forget your little ones mittens 🧤 

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Hot cocoa with milk or water?! 🍫☕️ I put t Hot cocoa with milk or water?! 🍫☕️

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>> Swipe to see her pouring her cocoa in her legs 😂 

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Who has done 99% of their shopping online in 2020? Who has done 99% of their shopping online in 2020?! 🙋🏻‍♀️

Putting out a little basket or box of goodie for your delivery drivers is a great idea show them how much you appreciate them! ❤️After all, they delivered they’ve even delivered your groceries (thanks 2020)! 🌮🥓🧀@heymadinelson has the template saved in her highlights that you can print and put with a box on your porch! I threw in granola bar, crackers, and candy!

📬Tell me the craziest thing you had delivered this year?! 

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